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Resources for those considering marriage. 

FAMILY MATTERS MINUTE
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Discuss Before Marriage
  By:  Min. Lisa Spears, M.A., LPC/i  
1.  Do I want to live the married lifestyle?
2.  Do I love this person enough to give up time and relationships with others?
3.  Are there family issues that will impact us?
4.  What do I know about this person's health, mental functioning, childhood issues, and family influences?
5.  Do our thoughts about the role of a husband/wife match?
6.  Do we both want children?  Are children already involved?
7.  Do we agree on how to handle finances?  Am I inheriting a bad credit report?
8.  Do we share the same religious beliefs?
9.  What is my first thought after the words "I 've decided to say, no?"  Is that a healthy marriage thought? 

Related Links

Below are links to websites that are helpful for those considering marriage.  The quizzes below give insight, with about 90% accuracy, into whether or not a relationship will fail or succeed.

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Wedding Planning

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    Use these resources
    before you buy
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   Understanding The Vows  

To have and to hold from this day forward

-Genesis 2:24 – Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave/be joined unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

-Matthew 19:9 – Whoever divorces his wife except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.

-I Corinthians 7:16 -- If the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases.

For better or for worse

-I Corinthians 13: 4 – Charity/Love suffereth long, and is kind .

-I Corinthians 13:7,8  – “Charity/Love” beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.  Charity/Love never faileth .

For richer or for poorer  &  In sickness and in health

-Job 1:21 – Job said, “naked came I out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return thither:  the Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.

-Job 1:7So went Satan forth from the presence of the Lord, and struck Job with sore boils from the sole of his foot unto his crown.

-Ephesians 5:28, 29So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.  He that loveth his wife loveth himself.  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church.

To love and to cherish, till death us do part

-Matthew 19:5, 6For this cause shall a man leave father and mother and shall cleave/be joined to his wife:  and they twain shall be one flesh; wherefore they are no longer two, but one flesh.  What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

 

              *Please use sound judgement in using any of these resources. 
              Listing them on this website does not imply endorsement.